Obituaries
Ramsden, Bernard “Bernie” Eugene Age 82 of Friendship
Born on December 5, 1942, in Oak Park, Illinois, Bernie was the first child of Eugene and Lempi (Wilson) Ramsden. He grew up in Elmwood Park, Illinois, a kid with an easy smile and a natural sense of responsibility. After graduating from Elmwood Park High School in 1960, Bernie answered a greater call and enlisted in the United States Navy. From 1962 – 1964, he served aboard the USS Long Beach, proudly navigating the seas as part of the nation’s first nuclear-powered surface warship.
But perhaps the greatest voyage of his life began on July 3, 1965, when he married Vera Carlson in Norwood Park, Illinois. The two were partners in every sense, building a life of love and devotion that would span nearly five decades. Together, they raised two daughters, Kimberly and Kristen, and built a warm home grounded in kindness, hard work, and laughter.
Bernie built a 37-year career at United Airlines, where he was known not only for his reliability and skill, but also for his pride in doing things right. His work took him behind the scenes of an industry that kept people connected – something that resonated with his deep sense of responsibility and service. Day in and day out, Bernie brought the same care and consistency to his job that he brought to every part of his life. While his title may have changed over the years, his approach never did: steady hands, a sharp mind, and a humble heart. For Bernie, it wasn’t just a job – it was a commitment, and one he fulfilled with distinction. In 2003, he retired, and the following year, he and Vera traded city life for the peaceful woods and winding trails of Arkdale, Wisconsin.
Bernie had a heart for the outdoors. He loved boating and riding ATVs. Folk music filled his home, and travel remained a lifelong joy. He was an active member of the Monroe Prairie ATV/UTV Club and never missed an opportunity to take the scenic route.
To his daughters, he was an anchor of strength and guidance. To his grandkids, he was simply Grandpa – a source of warmth, and always ready with a story. To friends and neighbors, he was the guy who showed up, helped out, and made you feel welcome.
Bernie’s story is one of gentle strength, deep love, and a heart always open to the world. He will be remembered not just in the places he walked or the trails he rode, but in every quiet moment that reminds us to slow down, breathe in the fresh air, and hold our loved ones close.
Bernie is survived by Kimberly (Lewis) Calgaro of Arkdale, WI; Kristen (Joseph) Oakey of Arlington Heights, IL; Nicole Calgaro (Tim Simmons) of Denver, CO; Robin Oakey of Arlington Heights, IL; his brother Bruce (Diane) Ramsden of Gurnee, IL; and his niece Jamie (Corey) Holmer, also of Gurnee. He is preceded in death by his parents and by Vera, his beloved wife and favorite co-pilot.
A Celebration of Life gathering will be held at a later date. In the meantime, the family invites those who knew Bernie to honor him in the way he would’ve wanted – by spending time in nature, drinking a good glass of whiskey, reading a book, or offering a helping hand.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations to the Wounded Warrior Project or Feline/Canine Friends, two causes close to Bernie’s heart.
Roseberry’s Funeral Home is assisting the family. Online condolences and additional information can be found at www.roseberrys.com.
Peterson, Raymond Walter Age 63 of Adams
Raymond Walter Peterson, 63, of Adams, Wisconsin, passed away peacefully on June 2, 2025 in the comfort of his home.
Born January 27, 1962 to Elizabeth and Richard Peterson I, Ray was a dedicated tool and die machinist whose strong work ethic and skilled hands left a lasting mark. Ray’s true pride and joy was his family. He is survived by his loving wife, Leana Peterson; his children, Kaylee Peterson (Kevin), Richard Peterson III (Amber), Beverly Johnson (Jacob), and Rosalind Peterson; and his cherished grandchildren, Mackenzie “Jack” Peterson and Everett Radant. He also leaves behind his sister Cynthia Peterson and his brother Richard Peterson II.
Ray had a deep love for the simple joys in life—cruising on his motorcycle, turning up the music, and spending time with his loyal dogs, Griffin and Clyde. He had a legendary sweet tooth and an unshakable love for bacon—if there was dessert on the table or the smell of bacon in the air, Ray wasn’t far behind. His sense of humor, big heart, and quiet strength will be remembered by all who knew him.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you honor Ray by spending time with those you love. Share a story, take a ride, turn up your favorite song—make the memories that truly matter.
He will be deeply missed and forever remembered.
Mattox, Sharon Marie Age 79 of Marshfield and formerly of Mauston
Sharon Marie Mattox, a cherished mother, grandmother & great-grandmother, passed away peacefully on June 4, 2025, at the age of 79, surrounded by her loving family at House of the Dove Hospice Center in Marshfield, WI. She was born on February 7, 1946, in Mauston, WI, to Melvin & Lorraine Cook. Sharon married Richard C. Gulas on January 7, 1967, although the union ended in divorce, their marriage was blessed with four children. She found true love and married William C. Mattox on October 11, 1986. They spent many wonderful years together traveling the United States, spending time with their family, and participating in community events.
Sharon was a lady who wore many hats in her lifetime. In addition to being a wife, homemaker, mother, grandmother and great grandmother; she spent many years working with local optometrists as an Optometry Tech, she worked with Adams County Memorial Hospital in the ER as an ER Tech, as an EMT and in the Outpatient Clinics, she was co-owner in AF Floral; and in her retirement was involved in the local chapter of Partners of Wisconsin Healthcare Association, Inc. Sharon had a deep and abiding faith in Christ and took comfort in the sure and certain hope of eternal life provided through that faith. She was a lifelong, faithful member of St. Paul’s Evangelical Lutheran Church in Mauston, WI. She was very honored and thankful to be a part of the process of establishing a congregation in Adams-Friendship; from the humble beginnings at the community center, to the days at the “Purple Palace”, to the joyous move to the new church building in 2020. Sharon faithfully attended weekly services and thoroughly enjoyed worshipping God and fellowshipping with other believers.
Sharon was known for her ability to create beautiful floral arrangements, amazing birthday cakes when her children were little, and even an occasional wedding cake in her younger years. She took pride and enjoyed watching her children grow and start families of their own. Sharon could instantly make you feel at home and always hosted the family’s Sunday dinners, Packer or Badger game days, and holiday celebrations. Her home was filled with laughter & love, plenty of food, and the occasional late-night poker or dominoes game with family and friends. Sharon had an unwavering dedication to her family, rarely missing an extra-curricular school game, choral concert or band performance of her children and grandchildren who lived in town (Chris, Victoria,
Mikayla & Chase); and traveling to many ballet performances for her granddaughter Danielle. She found great joy in several hobbies; she loved traveling with her husband Bill and family to Yellowstone, the Black Hills, and Washington, DC, spending time with friends in the Northwoods seeing the beautiful fall tree colors and choosing the perfect Christmas or birthday gifts for those she loved.
Sharon is survived by her children; Lisa (Ron) Allen, Carol (Dan) Wood, David (Bobbi) Gulas and Jennnifer Gulas-Schultz; grandchildren, Danielle (Mark) Baughman, Christopher (Allexys Meyers) Collins, Victoria (Kainen Dyer) Collins, Mikayla (Cole) Trzesniak, and Chase Gulas along with 2 great-grandchildren Ezra Sasser & Harper Baughman and the newest great-grandchild Baby (Chris) Collins due in November 2025. She is also survived by her sister Carol Cook, brothers Bob (Rose) Cook & Bill (Karen) Cook, along with many nieces, nephews, cousins, and treasured friends. She was preceded in death by her parents, Melvin & Lorraine Cook, and her beloved husband, William C. Mattox.
On Saturday, June 14, 2025, family & friends are invited to gather for a visitation at 11:30 AM, with a Memorial Service at 12:30 PM which will be followed by a light luncheon at St. Paul’s Evangelical Lutheran Church, 511 West Lake Street, Friendship, WI 53934. Private family graveside services will be held at Hancock Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Paul’s Evangelical Lutheran Church in Sharon’s memory.
The family would like to thank Gundersen Moundview Hospital, Marshfield Hospital, and the wonderful and caring nursing staff at House of the Dove in Marshfield, WI, for the amazing care she received during her hospice stay, along with Roseberry’s Funeral Home.
Meinhardt, Betty Age 73 of Friendship
Betty Meinhardt, age 73, of Friendship, Wisconsin, passed away peacefully on Sunday, June 1, 2025, at Our House Assisted Living in Wisconsin Rapids.
A Celebration of Life will be held on Sunday, August 10, 2025, from 11:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m. at Connell’s Cedar Shack in Adams, Wisconsin. Betty will be laid to rest at Mt. Repose Cemetery in Friendship.
Betty was born on February 23, 1952, in Sleepy Eye, Minnesota, to Louis Jacob and Delores Olga (Brey) Geiger. She grew up in New Ulm, Minnesota, and later married Michael Charles Meinhardt on July 6, 1970, in Watertown, South Dakota. Upon Mike’s return from serving in the U.S. Army, the couple lived in Cedar and New Ulm Minnesota, before moving to Friendship, Wisconsin in 1983.
A devoted wife, mother, and grandmother, Betty was known for her strong work ethic and caring spirit. Over the years, she worked at Castle Rock Container, Adams County Memorial Hospital, and Citgo, before retiring from her role as a Job Coach for the disabled with Adams County in 2018.
Betty loved the outdoors, especially camping, and was an avid reader. She had a deep love for animals especially her dog Bandit and supported local animal welfare causes.
She is survived by her loving husband of nearly 55 years, Mike Meinhardt of Friendship; sons Mike (Kim) Meinhardt of Friendship, Jamie (Jennifer) Meinhardt of White Creek, Dan (Nichol) Meinhardt of Reedsburg, and Louis (Jamie) Meinhardt of Dellwood; and her cherished grandchildren: Devon, Tim, Mandy (Nathan), Mikayla (Logan), Austin, Colton, Jordann, Dayne, Carsen, Autumn, Orion, Chloe, and Mason.
She is further survived by her brother Leon (Shirley) Geiger; sisters Sharon Brush and Linda (Gary) Watson; sisters-in-law Lori and Dee Geiger and many loving nieces and nephews, other relatives and friends.
Betty was preceded in death by her parents, Louis and Delores Geiger; her brothers Lester and LeRoy Geiger; sister Dianne Vonderharr; and brothers-in-law Jack Brush and Ron Vonderharr.
The family extends heartfelt thanks to the compassionate staff at Our House Assisted Living Memory Care and Hospice in Wisconsin Rapids for the outstanding care Betty received over the past year.
In lieu of flowers, Memorials in Betty’s name may be directed to the Adams County Humane Society.
Roseberry’s Funeral Home is assisting the family. Online condolences and further information can be found at www.roseberrys.com.
Ellis, Bonnie Lou Age 66 of Wisconsin Dells
Bonnie Lou Ellis, age 66, of Wisconsin Dells, passed away peacefully on Sunday, June 1, 2025, at St. Mary’s Hospital in Madison, Wisconsin.
Born on December 12, 1958, in Watertown, Wisconsin, Bonnie was the daughter of George and Gertrude (Gloede) Graham. She was raised in Appleton and graduated from Neenah High School with the Class of 1977. Bonnie spent much of her working life at Choice Beverage in Neenah and in several deli stores throughout the Fox Valley area.
On June 10, 2020, she married Timothy S. Ellis in Portage, Wisconsin. Together, they made their home in Dell Prairie Township, Adams County.
Bonnie will be remembered for her love of cooking, baking, gardening, and caring for her beloved dog, Gizmo. She found joy in feeding birds and tending to her home.
Bonnie was preceded in death by her parents and her brothers Ken, Allen, and Eugene.
She is survived by her loving husband, Timothy Ellis; sisters Phyllis (Randy), Penny Graham, and Debra (Mark) Shields; brother Greg (Sue) Graham; stepson Jeffrey Ellis; granddaughter Kira Ellis; and many nieces, nephews, other relatives, and friends.
In keeping with her wishes, no formal services will be held. She will be laid to rest at Highland Memorial Park in Appleton, Wisconsin.
Roseberry’s Funeral Home is assisting the family. Online condolences may be offered at www.roseberrys.com.
Peterson, Mary Ann M. Age 90 of Necedah
Mary Ann M. Peterson, age 90, of Necedah, WI, passed away on Saturday, May 31, 2025, at Crestview Nursing Home in New Lisbon, WI.
Funeral services will be held Friday, June 6, 2025, 11:00 a.m. at St. James Lutheran Church in Necedah, WI. Pastor Roger Erdman will officiate. Burial will follow in the Bayview Cemetery. Family and friends are invited for visitation on Friday from 9:00 a.m. until the time of service at the church.
The Torkelson Necedah Family Funeral Home is assisting the family with arrangements. Online condolences may be offered at www.torkelsonfuneralhome.com
Martin, Edith “Edie” P. Age 82 of Wonewoc & La Crosse
Edith “Edie” P. Martin, 82 years young, of Wonewoc and La Crosse, Wisconsin, passed away peacefully in her sleep on May 30th, 2025, in Springfield, Illinois while in the care and comfort of her daughter Michelle, son-in-law Mark Ellenz and granddaughter Samantha Martin.
Born on August 17th, 1942 to Peter and Pauline Ennis in Wonewoc, Wisconsin; Edie was the baby of the large Ennis clan. She was the 9th of 9 children – Beverly, Donald, Joseph, John, Thomas, Irene, Susan, Esther, and finally Edie. She loved being the baby of the family, and always looked up to her big brothers and sisters, frequently speaking highly of them and reminiscing about all the wonderful times they had growing up in Wonewoc.
Edie was married twice. First to Karey Robert Bigham, with this union being blessed with two children, Karey Thomas Bigham and Valerie Ann Bigham. (Partner-Dale) She later married Larry Martin, which blessed her with Michelle June Martin / Ellenz. Edie is further survived by six grandchildren – Tanner, Cassie and Hunter Bigham, Devan Jensen, Samantha Martin, and Jacob Ellenz. She will be joining one other grandchild, Tisha Schulz, in heaven. Edie wanted all the grandkids to know that they were the joys of her life.
Edie had several jobs throughout her life, but when asked, her most favorite job was the many years she spent as a young waitress at the Valley Inn in Elroy, Wisconsin. This job gave her the ability, in her own words, the “gift of gab” and the ability to easily make friends. This skill carried on throughout her life. Edie also retired from Juneau County, Wisconsin as a Supervisor in the Juneau County Human Services Sheltered Workshop, supervising adults with disabilities. This also brought her great joy and a sense of leaving the world a better place than when she arrived.
Edie was an animal lover with a kind heart. She had horses, dogs, cats, barn cats, and loved all of them throughout her life. Even up to her final days, she would eagerly be watching the squirrels fight each other over food and call the instigator squirrel unflattering words at Michelle’s house.
Last but not least, Edie’s favorite hobby, up to her last days, was to get dressed up and go out to eat at her favorite restaurants. She loved fashion, jewelry, and make-up. We lovingly called her Elizabeth Taylor because of her fashion taste and how long it took Edie to get ready every day, even if it was to go see the Doctor or the grocery store. Her colorful palette of wardrobe choice lasted all her life to her final day.
Edie was one of a kind and we will miss her very much. Per Edie’s wishes, no services will be held, so instead, please plant a tree, be kind to an animal, and above all, get all dressed up and go to your favorite restaurant in honor of Edie.
Kurzydlo, Elaine S. Age 76 of Mauston
Elaine S. Kurzydlo, age 76, of Mauston, Wisconsin, passed away peacefully at her home on May 31, 2025, surrounded by her loving family.
Elaine was born on April 27, 1949, in Glasgow, Scotland, the daughter of Robert and Violet (Ferguson) Henderson. From the moment she entered this world, Elaine had a way of making everyone feel seen, heard, and loved. She was a constant source of joy, warmth, and kindness, leaving a lasting impression on everyone who had the privilege of knowing her. Whether as a devoted volunteer for Girl Scouts, 4-H, National Ski Patrol, or a loving member of her community, she touched countless lives with her generous spirit. She also enjoyed her time working at WWTC and teaching first aid and CPR to the community.
Elaine touched many lives with her warmth, kindness, and compassion. She had a deep love for family. She cherished every moment spent with her loved ones, creating a home full of laughter, support, and unwavering love. Family gatherings, holidays, and spontaneous get-togethers were always filled with her infectious smile and kind heart.
Her love for animals was equally profound. Whether it was caring for her beloved pets or supporting animal charities, she always demonstrated a profound respect for all creatures. She believed in the simple joy that animals bring to life and shared that love with everyone she met.
Elaine is survived by her devoted husband, Dennis; her daughters, Carla Nolden (Eric Greve) and Ami (Zac) Board; five beloved grandchildren, Kayla (Greg), Adam, Alexis (Caleb), Maddie, and Gracie; and one cherished great-grandchild, Hudson. She was preceded in death by her parents, her brother Robert, and her sister-in-law Marcy. She loved her family deeply and took great joy in being a grandmother and great-grandmother.
True to her spirit, Elaine wished for her life to be celebrated, not mourned. A brief memorial service will be held on Saturday, June 7, 2025, from 2:00–4:00 p.m. at the Conway-Picha Funeral Home in Lyndon Station, WI. Chaplain Shane Haynes will offer words of remembrance and a blessing at 3:30 p.m. Following the service, family and friends are invited to a celebration of life gathering at Zac and Ami’s home: (N4763 22nd Ave, Mauston.)
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Elaine’s honor to two causes close to her heart: Carl W. Nelson Animal Shelter, P.O. Box 345, Mauston, WI 53948 or Friends and Family Cancer Foundation, Inc., P.O. Box 8, Mauston, WI 53948.
The family extends their heartfelt thanks to all who supported Elaine and continue to honor her memory.
Long, Jerry P. Age 84 of Westfield
Jerry P. Long, age 84, of Westfield, Wisconsin, passed away on Thursday, May 29, 2025, at Moundview Memorial Hospital & Clinics in Friendship, Wisconsin.
A celebration of life will be held from 11am to 3pm on June 14 2025 at the American Legion Post 244, 452 N Main Street, Westfield, WI 53964.
Jerry was born on March 20, 1941, in Westfield to John F. and Judith Long. He was raised in Westfield and graduated from Westfield High School in 1959. He began his career with Pioneer Power and Light Company before being drafted into the U.S. Army, where he earned the rank of Corporal. Upon his return to Wisconsin he worked at Badger Army Ammunition Plant before becoming a Wisconsin State Trooper. On September 9, 1967, Jerry married Deloris Schley in Wautoma, Wisconsin. Jerry’s law enforcement career included working in Dane County before serving in Adams County for many years. He retired in 1987 following an on-duty injury.
Jerry had a deep love for the outdoors and enjoyed hunting, fishing, and cheering on the Milwaukee Brewers. He especially cherished watching his grandchildren play sports. He also served as President of the Village of Friendship and Little League Coach for the Champion Cub teams of the early 1980’s.
He was preceded in death by his parents, John F. and Judith Long; his beloved wife, Deloris; and his brother, Jimmy.
Jerry is survived by his son, Shaun (Kathy) Long; and two grandsons, Jimmy and Jake. He is further survived by extended family and many friends.
In lieu of flowers, memorials in Jerry’s memory may be donated to his family.
Roseberry’s Funeral Home is assisting the family. Online condolences and additional information can be found at www.roseberrys.com.
Jackson, Debra K. Age 63 of New Lisbon
Debra K. Jackson, age 63, of New Lisbon, passed away peacefully on May 20, 2025, at Casa de Oakes in Reedsburg, WI. She was the daughter of Arthur Sr. and Virginia (Babcock) Slater and was born on April 30, 1962, in Chicago, IL.
She graduated from New Lisbon High School in 1980 and pursued further education in Richland Center, which laid the foundation for her lifelong dedication to helping others. Debra’s career was marked by her compassionate service as a Certified Nursing Assistant at Pleasant Acres in New Lisbon, where she touched the lives of many with her gentle care. She also provided home healthcare for several years, bringing comfort and support to families during their most challenging times. Debra later worked for Kwik Trip as the Deli Manager for 15 years. Her work was not just a job but a way to connect with her community and spread joy every day. She married the love of her life David Jackson on October 20, 1984 at St. Stephen’s Lutheran Church in Camp Douglas.
Debra’s love for the outdoors was evident in her passion for camping and boating. These activities brought her closer to nature and provided cherished moments with her family, which she valued above all else.
Family was the cornerstone of Debra’s world. She is survived by her loving children, Nichole Jackson of Tomah, Joshua Jackson of Necedah, and Benjamin (Danielle) Jackson of Mauston. Her brothers, Arthur (Dori) Slater Jr. of Gilman, Timothy (Cindy) Slater of Tomah, and her sister-in-law, Dolly (Tom Meoska) Jackson of Wonewoc, will hold her memory dear in their hearts. Her grandchildren were the light of her life, and she poured her love into every moment spent with Mikayla (Fiancé Lance Houzner), Austin, Cole, Skyla, Kayden, Cameren, Kerenden, Ava, Alayna, and her great-grandchild, Delilah. Debra was preceded in death by her parents Arthur Sr. and Virginia, her sister Ellen Rose Slater, and her beloved husband, David, who passed away in 2024.
As we bid farewell to Debra K. Jackson, we celebrate a life beautifully lived and a heart generously shared. Her spirit will forever be a guiding light to her family, friends, and all who were blessed to know her. Debra’s journey on earth has ended, but her story of love and kindness will continue to inspire us all for generations to come.
A Celebration of Life will take place on Saturday, May 31st, 2025 from 12:00p.m. until 3:00p.m at the Wonewoc American Legion Hall (108 Center St). The Hare Funeral Home in New Lisbon is assisting the family with arrangements. Online condolences are available at www.harefuneralhome.com