Mervin John Thayer, 67, passed away Dec. 2 at his home in Kendall.   He was born Feb 17 1950. Eldest of 3 sons of Ed and Clara June Thayer.   He was married in 1976 to Ann Meacham of Wilton.   Together they raised four sons. He farmed for 25 years, then found his passion in stonework.   He enjoyed golfing, fishing, and spending time with his family.   He was preceded in death by his grandpa John Thayer, his dad Ed Thayer and brother Jim Thayer.   He is survived by his wife of 41 years Ann, four sons Sid (Marie) Thayer, Wes (Carly) Thayer, Ashley (Beth) Thayer, Zach (Sara) Thayer.   His grandchildren Caston, Kinley, Brock, Brynn, Leah, Evan, and Nico.   His mother Clara June Thayer, and his brother Stuart (Paula Jean) Thayer. There will be no funeral service per his wishes.